So often, if you question the accepted orthodoxy of feminist advocacy, particularly if you ask why men are never included in discussions on domestic violence; the response is always the same… “You’re hijacking the conversation!” Again and again, in various forms, pitches and amplitudes, it will be shrilly yelled at you. That is, to suggest you and abused men are not welcome, that any time spent speaking about them is time wasted, and any question as to why, makes you ‘part of the problem’. It has become lore to a million posts, pages, protests, policy documents, debates, and TV campaigns, and sowed the seeds of origin to TheTinMen itself. But I’ve always wondered – If the discussion is about domestic violence, and if 39-50% of victims of domestic violence are male – then surely to ask why these men are never mentioned, is not “hijacking” at all; it is simply men, taking their long overdue seat on an aircraft within which they rightfully belong. We are hijacking nothing. The issue being discussed impacts millions of men too, and our choice to ask why so little is done for men, is valid, needed, and nothing to be shamed for. Alas… it means little to the mob. Ironically, nobody spits out the bitter pills of accountability and self improvement, quite like the angry feminist demagogues, who so smugly prescribe them to the rest of society. So – Is asking “why are you not talking about men”, in the many areas where they are ignored “hijacking the conversation”? Or is it just asking for the very equality, that we hear so much about? What do you think? ~ ONS Domestic Abuse https://tinyurl.com/4jaw7nw9 UN Drugs and Crime https://tinyurl.com/mrywen6k CDC NISVS https://tinyurl.com/udenur9h ONS Stalking https://tinyurl.com/343fcmyf

2025-10-13