Founder and CEO Domestic Abuse Experts You fail to mention that women are killed by a male partner or ex partner 6x more than men are killed by a female partner or ex partner: Even if your analysis were accurate on gender symmetrical, the impact. actual dead people, show the imbalance: Like Reply 4 replies The 'CEO' of domestic abuse experts calls me outl
@thetinmen Whenever share data on gender symmetry in partner violence (CDC) , 6,462,000 men 5,649,000 women like clockwork, someone will respond with: 'Well, women are overwhelmingly more likely to be killed by a male partner!'
@thetinmen An yes it's true, women are more often killed by a partner:_ 0 " but it's also true, that partner homicides make up 0.02% of all cases of partner violence: Every year; there are roughly 12.1 million U.S victims of partner violence, and there are 2,762 intimate partner homicides. Source: NISVS + Bureau of Justice Statistics
@thetinmen So whilst each of these deaths is a tragedy:.- such a tiny slither of all intimate partner violence, is not representative of the full picture.
@thetinmen Chief Executive @ My CWA Founder and CEO Domestic Abuse Experts You fail to mention that women are killed by a male partner or ex partner 6x more than men are killed by a female partner or ex partner: Even if your analysis were accurate on gender symmetrical, the impact._ actual dead people, show the imbalance This framing also ignores the many other deaths; that result from partner violence: Like Reply 4 replies Suicide: 30% Homicide: 39% Corollary victims: 17% Ht 8 enforcement Law deaths: 296 All intimate partner violence related deaths,n= 1,470
@thetinmen And these are the deaths where male victims predominate: IPV Homicides, 578 total 26% are male IPV Suicides, 439 total 81% are male IPV Corollary deaths, 256 total 77% are male IPV Homicide suicide, 167 total 95% are male IPV Law intervention deaths, 30 total 90% are male
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Every day someone new will arrive in my comments, sword and shield in hand, to take a swing at the unpopular, albeit factually sound, arguments I make on this page. And honestly, I respect them. Rather than whispering behind my back, and organising mass report groups to silence me, those who are willing to voice their disagreements show bravery that is deserving of respect. Of course, one of the big stats that I present, is the mountain of evidence that shows women and men are equally violent in relationships. It is an ugly, but objective truth, now substantiated by hundreds, if not thousands of papers, and dozens of national surveys, captured over many decades. The big, most common rebuke I receive is one that shifts the conversation toward intimate partner homicides; which women are more impacted by, and so the ideological claim of “gendered violence” is restored. However, whilst any death is a tragedy worth discussing, there are glaring blindspots to such a rebuke, that need to be outlined too. So, here they are. What do you think? ~ Bureau of Justice Statistics, Female murder victims: https://tinyurl.com/byvyzzky Fatalities related to intimate partner violence: towards a comprehensive perspective https://tinyurl.com/3hmr5nez

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