Male victims of abuse: by other MCN Burying the myths once and for all
Whenever you talk about 'male victims of abuse' , someone inevitably says: But who $ doing it? MEN!! (which is not true) So here is a comprehensive debunking; that uses decades of data to finally bury it
[1] According to this 1999 UK Home Office Study: men Home Office Research Stue sther 0 6 Domestic Violence: Findings from a new British Crime Survey self-completion questionnaire Catriona Mirrlees-Black A Research; Development and Statistics Directorate Report 95% of abuse assailants against men were women:
[2] Home Office Statistical Bulletin Here is a 2008/09 Home Office Home Office Statistical Bulletin: Homicides, Firearm Offences and Intimate Violence 2008/09 Supplementary Volume Malevictims Wales 2008/09 (Trerd Editeo Female victims Kevin Smitn (Ed ) John Fiatley (Ed: } Kainryn coleman, Sarah Osbare Peer Kalza and Gay Stephen Rce Hetero & Bisexual Lesbian & Bisexual Hetero All domestic abuse 4.1% 8.9% 5.9% 17.3% Non sexual 3.3% 6.2% 4.3% 12.4% partner abuse Non sexual 1.5% 3.3% 2.2% 8.5% family abuse Sexual assault (inc attempts) 0.3% 4.2% 2.6% 8.7% Total Number 20,892 512 24,796 473 it found 95.6% of abusers of men were women
[3] This 12-year Scottish study of police reports: Female perpetrator Male perpetrator 2000-01 2001-02 2002-03 experience of Men's in Scotland abuse domestic know more can 2003-04 2004-05 2005-06 Drian Demp 2006-07 2007-08 2008-09 2009-10 2010-11 2011-12 found 92%-94% of abusers of men were women Dltdlt
[4] The 2015 & 2018 Crime Surveys of England & Wales: Male Victims Female Victims Male 7% 59% Female 1 Male and female Can't remember 45% 2% 2% 1% 15% 6% Didn't answer 32% 32% [5] Victims Domestic abuse Partner abuse M F M F Total M F Heterosexual 4% 7% 2% 5% 4,361 5,037 1 Gay & Lesbian 8% 10% 5% 8% 108 8 Bisexual 6% 25% 6% 14% 56 83 106 found 84%-94% of abusers of men Were women:
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[7] Now here's some 2017/18 Scottish Government police report data__ Scottish Government Riaghaltas na h-Alba gov ScOI An Offizial Statistics publication for Scotland CRIME AND JUSTICE DOMESTIC ABUSE RECORDED BY THE POLICE IN SCOTLAND, 2017-18 This bulletin presents statistics on domestic abuse; based on details of incidents and recorded crme supplied by Police Scotland in 2017-18_ Incidents doniestic: abuse recorded by tne police do not reveal all incidents oi domestic abuse in Scotland all incidents are reported t0 police Tne figures used t0 It found that 16% of all (police reports Scoland: were men reporting female abusers_ abuse which amount [o conduuctnd Which lakes and 2% were men reporting male abusers, meaning 89% of abused men reported female perpetrators:
[8] Male perpetrator Female perpetrator Scottish Government Riaghultas na m-Albd govscot 97% 88% Scottish Crime and Justice Survey 2017/18: Main Findings 'Abusive partners were overwhelmingly of the opposite gender:' 9% 1% Male victim Female victim This 2017/18 Scottish crime survey had a similar finding:
[9] So what about: international data? CDC U.S. CENTERS FOR DISEASE CONTROL AND PREVENTION 2% 4% gay bisexual 9 ! 2 2 3 6 1 ] 94% Heterosexual The National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey NISVS 2016/Z1iZRepo "Reooty Sexual Identity UL 94% of male victims of intimate partner violence were in heterosexual relationships with women:
[10, 11, 12] And here are some huge global meta studies Prof: Martin Fiebert (343 studies) found: 'Women are as physically aggressive as men (or more) in their relationships with their spouses or opposite-sex partners: Prof. Murray Straus (2O0+ studies) found: 'Gender symmetry in perpetration and in risk factors and motives for physical violence in marital and dating relationships: Prof: Sarah Desmarais (272 data sets) found: More than 1 in 4 women (28.3%) and 1 in 5 men (21.6%) reported perpetrating physical violence in an intimate relationship:'
[13] Using a huge collection of data from 49 countries on both male and female partner violence, 117 statistical comparisons on gender were made: Equal or greater violence by female partner In 73 (or 62%) of those comparisons, rates of partner violence by women toward men was higher; or the same, as men's violence toward women.
Oh_ and one more thing What other myths need to be buried? What do you think? @thetinmen
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Have you ever noticed, that when you try and talk about male victims of abuse, someone will immediately claim that it’s “men doing it to other men”, in same sex relationships? Well, I have. The ledge of dogma such people stand upon is getting smaller and smaller, with evidence of male victims of abuse mounting up around them. And so to point the finger at abusive gay men, rather than women, is the obvious next step to avoid accountability. Such an assertion is both factually incorrect, and of course, deeply homophobic, and the data is there to prove it. Even London’s own Mayor, local homophobe @sadiq, has made this bunkum claim, even going as far as to print it within the his so called ‘tool kit’ for ending ‘Violence Against Women’. (A tool kit he was forced to retract, reprint and redistribute due to such factual inaccuracies) And I’m tired of it. Tired of my gay brothers being blamed for things they didn’t do, smeared as violent by weak politicians, and morally bankrupt advocates, so they can maintain their increasingly fragile world view, just a little longer. So here is the mother load of evidence to bury the “by other men” domestic violence claim once and for all. More than a dozen studies, covering twenty five years, across various countries, that uses only the most reliable Government sources, and international meta analyses available. So let’s take a look at who’s really abusing men… - Special thanks to William Collins of EmpathyGap.uk for compiling most of this data! (Read his book) [1] https://tinyurl.com/2jee95y9 [2] https://tinyurl.com/45dhyzus [3] https://tinyurl.com/72dmxvze [4] https://tinyurl.com/bddnv8vv [5] https://tinyurl.com/n4kamazk [6] https://tinyurl.com/y4s9ay4b [7] https://tinyurl.com/ys4dmk5b [8] https://tinyurl.com/4wpk9cna [9] https://tinyurl.com/4489jrac [10] https://tinyurl.com/46uja7nv [11] https://tinyurl.com/56u5xmte [12] https://tinyurl.com/3excr3mj [13] https://tinyurl.com/yc4eras2

2025-07-04

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