Be it some crypto bro, masculinity influencer, or manosphere grifter, everyone is giving advice to men these days, and often it costs a pretty penny. Usually, the advice makes my eyes roll to the back of my head, as it is almost always self-serving. Some kind of pyramid scam yelled into a phone by some bombastic, Bugatti-driving idiot; or some whiny positive masculinity guru with too many shirt buttons undone; or some ivory tower academic helping men be “better allies”; or some big-bearded monosyllabic gym bro, droning into a mic… It’s endless, and whoever it is, one thing is almost certain – their words mean nothing. Because the best advice I’ve seen for men comes from other men. Normal men who’ve been through it already, who’ve lived a life similar to yours, and learnt the lessons they can now teach you. So, with that in mind, I want to ask the men – what’s your #1 tip to better yourself as a man? What do you think?

2026-10-12