Consent is a two way street, and men too are entitled to say “no thanks”. Men are not, as one contributor puts it: sex crazed robots. And we too can feel tired, ugly, or just not in the mood. To say “no” often comes with its consequences for men as well. So prepare to be called “gay”, or “a virgin” or to otherwise have your manhood questioned. Prepare to be laughed at, scolded, pressured, or to spend the next hour or so reassuring her ‘its not you, its me’. And those insecure men who stomp their feet and throw a tantrum when women tell them no… yeah we get that too. So to the guys, when have you refused sex, why, and how did it go? ~ #consent #consentmatters #sexadvice

2023-08-17