As time goes on, I’ve come to learn the most shocking thing about this space, is not the terrible, and tragic things happening to men and boys.

But rather societies complete apathy toward it.

It’s not the men who sleep on the streets, or who fill our prisons, rehab centers, and morgues; it’s not the boys falling back and dropping out of education; or the men who end their lives in record breaking numbers, that I find most horrifying.

It’s that nobody does anything about it.

And worse, some somehow manage to centre women, even when men are overwhelmingly more impacted…

In discussion with @vansh.xyz at The Human Lens.

Full podcast here https://tinyurl.com/3xmkpkdz

2025-10-22